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The term alternative dating sites has gotten lots of press lately as more and more dating web sites have begun to narrow their focus to find a particular niche in the online dating marketplace. But what makes a site an alternative dating service as opposed to simply one that is specific to a particular ethnic group or sexual orientation? I consider a site an alternative dating site if the group it is appealing to is obviously more narrowly focused than just a particular sexual inclination or a standard type of interests that are considered fairly common.

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Free alternative dating sites are relatively common because they are so focused – they need to gain a substantial foothold with a relatively small cross-section of the population, so they can’t really afford to charge a lot. Instead, they either make their income off advertising or they are simply offered as a public service of sorts to a specific group.

In addition to the obvious BDSM and alternative lifestyle personals, there are four different sites I’ve found that I consider alternative dating services because of their very specialized focus that also provide good, reliable service to its members. Each of these alternative dating sites will appeal strongly to certain types of people – you’ll love them if they target your own interests.

This site is all about men and women in the military or, in some cases, people who want to meet someone who is in the military. It takes a special type of person to maintain a relationship with military personnel – there are frequent relocations, high stress levels and it’s a unique sub-culture of the American way of life. The website Militarydate.com recognized the need to help military singles find partners and friends who understand their lifestyle and the response has been tremendous.

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Military Date is a very affordably priced alternative dating site. You can post your profile and pictures and browse member profiles for free. If you want to contact other members you will need to join. You can search by region of the world (where someone is stationed), branch of the military, and a long list of interests. Many members stay with the service long after they’ve met their special someone because it is a close-knit community of service men and women.

Men and women with HIV, Herpes or other sexually transmitted diseases often have a hard time dating. Either they can’t find the right time to reveal their STD to a potential partner, or the person they tell finds it difficult to handle. Other individuals with STD’s have simply decided they don’t want to take the chance of passing it on to someone else. As an alternative, dating websites like the Antopia Herpes Network provide a safe, secure place where infected individuals can meet others who are also infected. Not only does this prevent the spread of STD’s, it ensures understanding and compassion because your partner has been through the same experience.

This herpes dating site is exceptional because it offers so much; with 57,000+ members in the United States it’s a great place to socialize without feeling ostracized. Most members have Herpes, although some also have STD’s such as HPV. You can exchange emails, chat and post your profile and photo for free. The chat is for paying members, except for Wednesdays and Saturdays, when it is free for everyone, which I think is a great way to let you try it out until you are comfortable actually joining.

This site also has great health information and links to medical reports and helpful services for those who carry the Herpes virus. The whole tone of the site is one of helpfulness and support – members who have been online for a while often offer support and advice on dating through the message boards. The site also posts information on “H Events,” which are socializing opportunities in various cities for people with STD’s. I found this site one of the friendliest and most sincere I’ve visited. If you have an STD, this alternative dating site can change your whole outlook on dating and relating.

Changing gears completely, I heartily recommend Date My Pet, an alternative dating site that caters to the millions of true animal lovers who are currently single. You’ve heard the phrase, “Love me, love my pet?” This site is the epitome of the old saying – members are pet lovers who wouldn’t consider dating anyone who didn’t share their passion for man’s best friends. Post your profile and picture, then add a few photos of your pet or pets and begin using the matching service – for yourself or your pet! That’s right; you can match your pet up with potential play buddies.

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Profile questions revolve around the animals in your life as well as your own interests. Questions include: “My pet would describe me as…” and “My pet is seeking…” as well as information about what type of person you are looking for. It sounded a bit odd to me at first, but I have to tell you I had a blast looking at the pet photos and reading the stories other members had written about their dogs, cats, reptiles and other pets. I felt at home here because I love my own pets the same way – and think mine are adorable, too.

If you’re looking for events where you can meet other animal lovers, you can find those at Datemypet.com as well. Try “Drool in the Pool” in NYC or Chicago’s “PAWS Run for Their Lives” fundraiser.

The name says it all – find the millionaire you always knew was out there just waiting for you by joining Millionaire Match. You can join even if you aren’t a millionaire, but most members really do have an astounding net worth or yearly income. This alternative dating site serves two purposes – if you already have money, this is a great place to meet people who understand how hard you work and the hectic pace you live, or if you want to meet someone who is well-off, you can email those you are interested.

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Surprisingly, having lots of money seems to make it more difficult for lots of members to find a partner, so they’ve turned to Millionaire Match to find a truly compatible “special someone.” The membership stays exclusive by not allowing any browsing or contact at all unless you become a paying member. It also breaks profiles into two categories – those who make at least $150,000 per year, and those who don’t. Once you join, the profiles and the personality questionnaire are impressive and give you lots of information to get you started.

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Whether you’re looking for someone in the Armed Forces, will understand your Herpes, has a passion for poodles or can guarantee you a life of luxury, there are plenty of alternative dating sites for you on the Internet!

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